Wedding Planner in progress
for one reason i started to think about being a wedding planner. One person said that it was seen within my soul... that i can become a good wedding planner. frankly speaking never come across my mind to become one before...
until something stuck on me on my own wedding day. maybe because i was a perfectionist. wanted something that is different from a normal wedding i have seen many times... even maybe hundreds and thousands of times in my life before i got married.... most of the time, i was offered a wedding organizer instead of a wedding planner... what's the difference anyway?
to tell you the truth, i didn't even recognized it at once... but one thing, wedding organizer mostly only hold a technical meeting, maybe a month, or a week before the actual day started, and then, help the bride and groom to make sure everything goes well on that day... if in any case, anything crop up in that particular day, that wedding organizer will be the one who handle it... the negative is, coz it was not the WO who planned and dealt with everything, and every vendors, they are not familiar with the terms and conditions agreed in the first place between the bride groom and the vendors, as the results, when any vendors slack on their works, the WO doesn't even realized it... whereas for a wedding planner... they planned for it, they make the concepts according to the likes, needs, wants and hobbies of the couple... and they find vendors according to it... fit everything into the couple's budget... and voila... there it was... a nicely planned wedding... with all the concepts and all:)
met a few wedding planners too here in jakarta... had them handled my own wedding... but somehow, i just can't get the idea running and all... so i told my dearest hubby... and maybe... it was then, the call came... to become one of the distinguished extraordinary wedding planner...
someone who can help to draw up a unique concepts... to make sure that the couple's wedding was one of a kind... to draw up a budget planning for the couple, so as for the couple to save as much as possible for their houses, their new families, and all... to make a simple concepts into a fun, nice, luxurious, glamorous wedding...
if anyone of you ever realized, most men, who of course, tried as much as possible to pay for their own wedding (except for those who already inheritate the luxurious will from their grandparents or parents of course... )which means, tight budget is on the line...
whereas for women... coz we are more emotional... more sensitive in the heart in the sense... we will deffinitely thought of the wedding as our once-in-a-lifetime chance... one which may not be able to come twice in our lives... especially in Asia... for those who are still holding on to the traditions strongly. this is one of the reasons why most women wanted the wedding as one of a kind... as special as anyone may come across... and most of them, put very much weight to the little details they can hold on to... but somehow, those little details... are the ones that boost the budget up and up and up if you ever realized it...
as in for me... i was thinking of becoming the one person to come between the both of them. the one who can fit in all the details women wanted to into all the men's budget... and hopefully, they will live happily ever after...

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